Planned Giving Etiquette | Sharpe Group
Posted March 5th, 2025

Planned Giving Etiquette

planned giving etiquette

Though thanking your donors may not be as formal a process as it once was, that doesn’t mean it is any less important. Here are some things to remember for proper planned giving etiquette when you are saying “thank you”:

  • Timing is everything. Make a habit of thanking your donors as soon as possible after a gift is received or you are notified of the intention of making a gift.
  • Tell your donor what the gift will mean to your organization and what a difference it will make (with examples).
  • Nothing takes the place of a handwritten note, especially with your older donors. An acknowledgment of the gift and a personal thank-you are not the same thing. The first is more businesslike; the second is personal.
  • Consider acknowledging the longevity of giving and cumulative giving, especially in the case of older donors whose frequently repeated smaller gifts may be a greater indication of long-term interest than a periodic larger gift from a younger person. 

Building long-term relationships

Paying attention to your donors once you have received a gift improves the chance that your donor will increase their giving in the future and perhaps even provide the ultimate gift in their estate. ■

Need help creating the perfect custom thank-you note? Reach out to your Sharpe Group consultant.

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